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Attract $20,000 with EFT

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Would having an extra $20,000 help you out right now? I’m sure it would! Nobody in their right mind would sneeze at $20,000.

Ever since the hit movie ‘The Secret’, people have been working with the Law of Attraction and trying desperately to transform their lives for the better. Most, unfortunately, have never achieved the results they desire, and many have given up with a sense of hopelessness feeling as if either there is something wrong with them, or that the Law of Attraction is a sham.

This is an unfortunate situation, and the truth is, that most people don’t understand the fundamental principals of the Law of Attraction and what it takes to make it work.

The principal behind the LOA is simple. We are vibrational beings and, just like us, everything in the Universe is energy vibrating at a particular frequency. When 2 objects vibrate at the same frequency, they are attracted to each other. All emotions and belief systems are also energy. So if you have belief systems and emotions that are vibrating in alignment with lack and poverty, you will literally repel money. The good news is that we can alter our vibration and frequency through positive focus on what we want and aligning ourselves vibrationally with it.

The next most important point is that this takes time, and it is different for everybody. For some it may happen quite quickly, depending on where their vibration is in comparison to what they want, while others may take a lot longer. The critical thing is to never, never, never give up. As long as you maintain a positive focus, you must end up in alignment with what you want and when you are in alignment, it must come into your life. THIS IS LAW!!!

Fortunately we now have many different transformational tools available to us to help change our frequency more quickly. And when used regularly and effectively, over time our lives can become like a factory for miracles.

Those who know me know that my favourite tools are Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and Sound Healing. So following you will find an EFT script that you can follow and, if used regularly (preferably every day) for a few weeks, miracles will definitely start to occur.

Karate Chop:

Even though I could really use $20,000 right now, I have absolutely no idea how to attract it into my life, and I choose to love and accept myself anyway.

Even though the thought of having an extra $20,000 really makes my heart sing, I’m convinced that I will never get to see that kind of money in my lifetime because I’ve always blocked it in the past, but I choose to be open to all the possibilities the Universe has in store for me.

Even though I’m convinced that I’m hopeless at attracting money and the Law of Attraction doesn’t work for me, I’m open to finding out whatever is blocking me from wealth and releasing whatever that is.

Eyebrow: There’s no way I’m going to receive $20,000

Outside Eye: It’s just not possible

Under Eye: I could definitely use it right now

Under Nose: But I am hopeless at attracting money

Chin: I’ve tried everything and the Law of Attraction doesn’t work for me

Collar Bone: The thought of having that kind of money makes me go weak at the knees

Under Arm: It would really solve a lot of problems for me right now

Top of Head: But I’ve never been good at receiving money

Eyebrow: Money and me really don’t get along

Outside Eye: I must be blocking it for some reason

Under Eye: But that doesn’t make any sense

Under Nose: Why would I block money coming into my life

Chin: Maybe the Universe is holding out on me

Collar Bone: Maybe it’s some kind of cosmic joke

Under Arm: Well it’s not funny

Top of Head: I’m angry that I’ve tried really hard, but the Universe is holding out on me

Eyebrow: I’m fed up that I can’t create the money I want in my life

Outside Eye: I’ve tried and tried and there’s no way I’m getting $20,000

Under Eye: The Law of Attraction just doesn’t work for me

Under Nose: I know deep down inside that I’m blocking it

Chin: Which is really frustrating because I could really use $20,000 right now

Collar Bone: Maybe I don’t feel safe having that kind of money

Under Arm: Maybe I don’t feel like I deserve it

Top of Head: Maybe I’d be breaking some sort of family law if I had that kind of money

Eyebrow: I would love to know why I’m blocking having more money

Outside Eye: Because then I could clear it and all my problems would be solved

Under Eye: But I have no idea how I could create having $20,000

Under Nose: I’m obviously not in vibrational alignment with it

Chin: Because I’m just no good at bringing money into my life

Collar Bone: I would love to have an extra $20,000 dollars right now

Under Arm: But I really don’t believe that it’s ever going to happen

Top of Head: And I’m tired of struggling for money

Take a deep breath.

Most people, when they’re considering their financial problems, get stuck because they don’t know how they can change their situation. Remember that ‘how’ is not important because it’s not your business. The Universe has hundreds if not thousands of possibilities available to be able to create solutions to your problems and whatever money you want to attract into your life. The Universe knows how to orchestrate everything to create whatever you want. ‘How’ is not your concern. ‘What’ is all you have to worry about and then follow the inspiration that turns up.

Start to really pay attention to any signs and inspiration that appear over the coming days, weeks and months and be grateful for any extra money, small and large, however it comes to you and a trickle will turn into a flood.

Now for a positive EFT tapping round.

Eyebrow: I would really love to have an extra $20,000 right now

Outside Eye: I can just imagine what I’m going to do to get it

Under Eye: I would love to know why I’m blocking money in my life

Under Nose: And whatever it is, I choose to transcend and transform it right now

Chin: Maybe I don’t have to know what the block is

Collar Bone: I choose to tune into my vibration

Under Arm: And call up all the blocks I have to money

Top of Head: And I transform and transmute them into pure love energy

Eyebrow: I call up whatever blocks I have to $20,000

Outside Eye: And I transform and transcend them right now

Under Eye: I choose to take all the energy I have invested

Under Nose: In blocking money in my life

Chin: And transmute and transform it into pure love energy right now

Collar Bone: I choose to release any belief system or emotion

Under Arm: That’s blocking $20,000 in my life

Top of Head: And transmute, transform and transcend it into positive energy now

Eyebrow: I love the thought of having $20,000

Outside Eye: And I’m curious about how it’s going to turn up

Under Eye: I choose to allow it into my life with ease and grace

Under Nose: I choose to be open to receive $20,000 now

Chin: I choose to know I’m a master creator

Collar Bone: And if I want an extra $20,000 then I just have to align my vibration with it

Under Arm: So I choose to align my vibration with $20,000 right now

Top of Head: And I allow it into my life with ease and grace

Eyebrow: I know exactly what I’m going to do with that money

Outside Eye: And it is going to feel so great

Under Eye: I am ready to release all belief systems that are blocking financial freedom for me

Under Nose: And I’m really excited about having an extra $20,000 in my life

Chin: And I’m open to all the possibilities and opportunities

Collar Bone: That could help me create $20,000

Under Arm: With ease and grace

Top of Head: I’m so happy and so grateful to receive $20,000 with ease and grac

Another thing to remember is that your level of belief is also very important. The slightest doubt will unravel your attempts to attract what you want, so build absolute faith using EFT and by visualising your dreams, being grateful for them coming to fruition. Do this and your life will be transformed.

And you may have any belief systems that are blocking your wealth become very clear to you through things that happen. Pay attention, particularly to things and situations that are in your face, and may even be challenging. These are gifts from the Universe showing you what’s blocking what you want. It’s up to you to clear them to allow the money to show up.

And finally, be patient. It won’t happen overnight, but it will happen. IT IS LAW!

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Money Can Buy Happiness

That’s right! I am going to go against the trend and tell you that the age old belief that ‘Money can’t buy happiness’ is a myth and you need to vanquish it from your memory and your programming forever.

The obvious argument for the original statement that ‘money can’t buy happiness’ is clear. Happiness comes from within, and there are plenty of wealthy and successful people who are unfulfilled and desperately unhappy. I am not disputing that for a second.

And I’m not talking about being able to buy more ‘stuff’ that will make you happy. This is a recipe for disaster and will pretty much guarantee failure in your pursuit of happiness as more stuff is simply another distraction from what you really need which is personal fulfilment on all levels: physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

My position in this debate is this: it’s not that money can’t buy happiness, but that money doesn’t necessarily buy you happiness. Money can most definitely buy you happiness when you are spending it wisely in ways that will help you to rediscover happiness.

Happiness is a state of being that exists within us regardless of our situation, it’s just that more often than not it has paled into insignificance because of all the stress, worry, anger, fear, frustration, sadness, guilt, shame, overwhelm, etc, etc, etc. It’s not that we aren’t happy, it’s just that the happiness has been swamped by a multitude of other negative emotions. The happiness is still inside us waiting to rise above all the other conditions.

So, if this is true, how can money buy happiness?

Well, what is the best way to release all your negative emotions to rediscover your true inner peace and happiness? Healing, personal development and reconnecting with who you truly are!

And what is almost essential to help you experience the most powerful form of healing and personal development? Money!

Sure, we all have within us everything we need to be our beautiful, magnificent, awesomeness and share it with the world. However, in my experience, it can be almost impossible to raise your head out of the emotional quagmire to be able to reach that place inside on your own. Having someone to guide you to that place inside of you and help you release all the other crap is so much more effective and efficient.

And there are plenty of incredible healers and specialists available who have made it their life’s work to do just that. The fact of the matter is that they charge money for their services, and rightly so. And the more well known they are, the more money they charge.

It’s important to note that just because they are more well known, doesn’t mean they are necessarily the best. It just means they have marketed themselves more effectively to be seen as the expert.

Money will also give you the time freedom you need to be able to spend it focusing on your healing and personal development to realize true and lasting happiness.

 

And if you have money, you can invest it in acquiring the tools, information and resources you require to live a life of purpose, passion and fulfilment.

 

So in fact, money will never be the source of your happiness. Having a constant in flow of money will help you feel financially secure, but it is the way you utilise the money that will ultimately assist you in rediscovering your true state of joy and happiness.

 

Money is a tool that gives you access to everything you need to engage in a fulfilling and satisfying life. So do whatever you can to eliminate your negative belief systems around money. It’s time you gave yourself permission to be successful and wealthy and do whatever you came here to do so the rest of the world can benefit!

You Must Break The Rules If You Want To Succeed

From the time we are introduced to this world, we are taught to conform. We are rewarded by the people who are the most influential in our lives if we adopt their way of thinking, the patterns of behaviour they exhibit, their judgements, values, ideals, etc.

We are over regulated with rules within rules within rules that are designed to control our behaviour and make us into good little conformists, so people, authorities and governments know what to expect from us and they don’t receive any nasty little surprises by having us actually challenge their way of thinking, feeling or being in the world.

We are conditioned to fear thinking and behaving differently because there are “consequences”. Most of us don’t even understand consciously what these apparent consequences might be, it’s just inherited thinking that they are there, threatening any innate desire we might have to explore new realms and possibilities and ways of being in the world.

Sadly, most of us aren’t taught to think for ourselves, but adopt the thinking of others who have survived with their way of thinking and believe that it is in your best interests to think and act the way they do. We develop physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually through modelling.

And we also adopt their dysfunction and limitations as well. Largely we become carbon copies of the people in our environment. Instead of being encouraged to think for ourselves and discern what works for us and become individuals free to express our own unique brilliance in the world, we are largely punished for ‘breaking the mold’ and becoming our own person.

It is possible to break free of this conditioning. It was said by a close relative that Steve Jobs “Didn’t think the rules applied to him”. And he expressed himself in a way that redefined the way we live today by not allowing everybody else’s definition of possible and impossible to influence his thinking. It also meant he could be anti-social and fly in the face of authority against regulations that are put there actually to protect us, not just to control us. It’s smart to play by the rules that serve us, and be ready to break down and reject those that don’t.

All the leaders, inventors and super successful people in the world have, in one way or another, found a way to break out of conformity and break the rules that don’t serve their purpose.

Leading edge innovative organizations like Apple, Google, Facebook, IBM, Microsoft, Virgin, Nintendo and many other technology based companies have transformed many aspects of our lives and actually altered our behavior through their audaciousness and refusing to be captured within the web of the structured systems we hold onto so vigorously.

Obviously, it is in our best interests to be respectful of those around us and behave in a way that does not threaten the well being of any living creature. But there are many rules, many of them unwritten, and secretly passed down to you through generations of compliant people who don’t dare to challenge the system, that are begging to be broken, and must be broken, if you are to succeed.

Below is an EFT tapping sequence that will help you to break free of limitations adopted during your earliest years through conditioning and not be frightened to break the rules that are holding you back from being the best you can be and living to your full potential.

First rate the following statement on a scale of 0 to 10. ) being that it’s not true for you at all and 10 being the most true it could possibly be for you: “I’m afraid to break the rules in case I have to suffer the consequences”.

Now go through the following tapping sequence:

Set Up:

Karate Chop Point:

Even though I’m afraid to break the rules because there might be consequences, I deeply and completely accept the way I feel.

Even though I have this fear about breaking the rules in case it gets ugly, I profoundly love and accept all of me.

Even though I’m afraid to be unique and different and break the rules because I know there will be consequences, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway.

Eyebrow: I was taught to follow the rules

Outside Eye: And I’ve been a good rule follower

Under Eye: I’ve done what I was told

Under Nose: And it’s worked for me so far

Chin: People know what to expect

Collar Bone: And I know what to expect

Top of Head: I’m actually afraid to break the rules

Eyebrow: It’s better for everybody if I conform, including me

Outside Eye: I feel safe when I follow the rules

Under Eye: They taught me not to express my individuality

Under Nose: And to follow the rules

Chin: Everybody’s happy when I follow the rules

Collar Bone: My families rules

Under Arm: Societies rules

Top of Head: The Governments rules

Eyebrow: There are so many rules

Outside Eye: I’m tired of following the rules

Under Eye: But what about the consequences if I don’t

Under Nose: Bad things will happen if I don’t follow the rules

Chin: And I’ll get into trouble

Collar Bone: That’s why I’m afraid to break the rules

Under Arm: I don’t like getting into trouble

Top of Head: Even though I’m really limited by all these rules

Eyebrow: I choose to follow them anyway

Outside Eye: Because I’m afraid to break them

Under Eye: It’s not safe to break the rules

Under Nose: Or challenge the system

Chin: Because there are consequences

Collar Bone: And I’m not prepared to suffer the consequences

Under Arm: It’s just easier and safer if I stick to what I know

Top of Head: I’m afraid to break the rules in case I have to suffer the consequences.

And take a deep breath and rate that statement: “I’m afraid to break the rules in case I have to suffer the consequences”. I it has come down to a 2 or below then move onto the positive tapping round. Otherwise, keep tapping with these phrases or ones that you feel are more appropriate for you and your situation, until it’s come down to a 2 or below before progressing.

Set Up:

Karate Chop:

Even though I still have this fear about breaking the rules, I’m ready to challenge all my old programming and express my own unique brilliance to the world.

Even though there might be consequences if I don’t conform the way I was taught, I choose to break free of these limiting rules and be uniquely me in every way, free to discover my full infinite potential.

Even though I don’t feel safe challenging the system and all the rules I was taught to follow, I’m ready to break the rules anyway and surprising everyone by achieving way beyond all of their expectations and mine.

Eyebrow: I’m ready to break free of the rules that no longer serve me

Outside Eye: I’m tired of being a conformist

Under Eye: I’m prepared to suffer the consequences of breaking the rules

Under Nose: So I can be free to be me

Chin: I love the thought of being free to be all of me

Collar Bone: Even if it means I’m going to shock some people

Under Arm: Even if some of my family and friends don’t won’t me to

Top of Head: I’m tired of being limited by all these rules

Eyebrow: And I refuse to allow myself to be limited by them anymore

Outside Eye: It feels so liberating and exciting

Under Eye: When I think about breaking out and being uniquely me

Under Nose: And doing things that are unexpected

Chin: And living to my full potential

Under Arm: I have allowed myself to be bound by these rules for long enough

Top of Head: And it’s worth upsetting people to realize my goals and dreams

Eyebrow: If people don’t like it, then that’s their problem

Outside Eye: I love the thought of being free to be me

Under Eye:  I feel so liberated and excited about the possibilities

Under Nose: Now I know I don’t have to follow all of their rules

Chin: I refuse to allow their rules to prevent me

Collar Bone: From living to my full potential anymore

Under Arm: I am ready to break out

Top of Head: And go way beyond everybodies expectations

Eyebrow: And way beyond my expectations

Outside Eye: I’ll probably cop some flack from people who want me to stay where I am

Under Eye: But I don’t want to be where they are

Under Nose: I’m ready to fly in the face of convention

Chin: And show everybody what I’m really capable of

Collar Bone: By being the best I can possibly be in every part of my life

Under Arm: I feel liberated and excited about breaking all the rules

Top of Head: That have been holding me back all my life from living to my full potential

And take a deep breath and rate that statement: “I’m afraid to break the rules in case I have to suffer the consequences”.

Keep tapping until the rating has come down to a zero.

And if you do fly in the face of convention, you are going to experience resistance from all over the place from people who truly believe they have your best interests at heart by bringing you back to where they are. The question is do you really want to be where they are? Has it been working for you so far? What do you really want out of life?

Would you prefer to live as an under achiever like the people you have modelled, or would you prefer to be a Steve Jobs, Richard Branson, Oprah Winfrey, Bill Gates, breaking convention and living to their full potential and making the world a better place?

It’s your choice!

You Deserve to Be Wealthy

How are your finances right now? Do you have the freedom to do everything you want and more? If not, then the reason is not the global economy. It’s not your families’ fault. It’s not your employers’ fault. It’s nobodies fault, not even yours, but it is your responsibility to change it.

Your personal economy is not at the mercy of any outside influence, and you have the ability to thrive under any economic conditions. More fortunes are made during times of depression than any other for those who put themselves in a position to take advantage of the opportunities that present themselves.

It depends on your subconscious programming, whether you believe it’s safe and right for you to succeed and whether your belief systems (BS) support that you deserve to succeed. But if you have any belief that there isn’t enough, that your not good enough, that something bad will happen if you succeed, that you don’t deserve success or wealth, that money is evil, that only criminals get rich, rich people are greedy / arrogant / uncaring or some other negative belief system, then your subconscious will never allow you to be wealthy or successful.

And unless your BS’s support you being wealthy and successful, you are living your life based on lies. You deserve to have everything you wish for and so much more. And the following EFT sequence will give you a big boost in the right direction.

There are hundreds, even thousands of reasons that you might subconsciously sabotage your success and it all stems back to your childhood and your ancestors belief systems around money and success as well as your experiences as you grew up. It’s impossible to get to the root of all your belief systems in one session. It is your responsibility to be consistent at uncovering what is holding you back. But the following EFT tapping sequence will help to shift your vibration and start the ball rolling and, if you use it often, you will find your belief systems coming up to show you what you need to clear in order to be successful and wealthy beyond your wildest dreams.

If you aren’t familiar with EFT Tapping then please visit my website www.healingandabundance.com where you can access a tutorial teaching you this simple yet powerful transformational technique.

Firstly, repeat the statement “I deserve to be financially wealthy beyond my wildest dreams”. Now rate how true that statement feels for you on a scale of 0 to 10, 0 being it’s not true at all and 10 being the most true it could be for you.

And now follow this tapping sequence.

Karate Chop Point:

Even though I don’t believe I deserve to be wealthy and successful, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway.

Even though I keep sabotaging my financial freedom, I choose to love and accept myself and believe that I do deserve better.

Even though money and life is always a struggle for me and I don’t know how to change it, I choose to love and accept all of me.

Eyebrow:   Money is always a struggle for me.
Outside Eye:   My family has always worked hard for money
Under Eye:   And we could never get ahead
Under Nose:   That’s just the way it is for us
Chin:   We’re good, honest, hard working people
Collar Bone:   And honest people never get ahead
Under Arm:   That’s just the truth about life and money
Top of Head:   All wealthy people are greedy and waste money on frivolous things

Eyebrow:   And I would never like to be like them
Outside Eye:   So I never want to be wealthy
Under Eye:   It’s not right that I should be wealthy when so many other people, including my family never have enough
Under Nose:   Because the truth is, there is not enough to go round
Chin:   If I have more, somebody else has less, and I couldn’t live with that
Collar Bone:   Besides, money can’t buy happiness, that’s what my family taught me
Under Arm:   I should be satisfied with what I’ve got
Top of Head:   Besides, it’s safe where I am, even if I am struggling

Eyebrow:   I won’t know who I am if I’m wealthy and successful
Outside Eye:   And my life will change completely, and I couldn’t have that
Under Eye:   I’m better of just struggling and working hard
Under Nose:   My family showed me that that’s they way it’s supposed to be for us
Chin:   And I don’t want to betray my family and friends
Collar Bone:   What will they think of me?
Under Arm:   What if they don’t like me anymore?
Top of Head:   No, it’s definitely not safe for me to be wealthy and successful, so I’m going to stay right where I am

Take a slow, deep breath and again repeat the phrase “I deserve to be financially wealthy beyond my wildest dreams”. Rate how true that statement feels for you on a scale of 0 to 10. The number should have improved at least a little bit.

Now it’s up to you to do some more in depth inquiry into why you aren’t wealthy and why you feel you don’t deserve to be. Have a look over the previous tapping phrases again and pull out the ones that are most true for you. I have covered a whole range of different belief systems there, but there are hundreds of others that may also pertain to you.

How do you feel about deserving to be wealthy? Life being a struggle? Being able to be frivolous with money? And think about why you would feel that you are undeserving? Think back to when you were about 5 or 6. How did your parents interact about money? Were they constantly working, struggling, stressing out and never getting ahead? Were there arguments about money? What did they think about rich, successful people? How would they react if you walked in the house being really wealthy and successful, driving an expensive sports car and wearing expensive clothing / jewellery? How would your friends react?

Are you starting to see where our subconscious could be a web of belief systems all intertwined that keep you stuck in your current reality?

So, once you’ve explored what’s holding you back and tapped until you have the rating around the phrase “I deserve to be financially wealthy beyond my wildest dreams” up to at least an 8, try the positive tapping round below and notice how different you feel.

Karate Chop Point:
Even though I still have this feeling that money has to be a struggle, I choose to know in every fibre and cell of my being that I deserve to be wealthy beyond my wildest dreams.

Even though I have been holding myself back from being financially free, I deeply and completely accept myself and am open to new possibilities to attract more money into my life.

Even though I’m still holding onto these belief systems that are preventing me from being financially wealthy, I choose to believe there are hundreds of ways money could come to me and be open to receiving it.

Eyebrow:   I choose to believe that I deserve to be financially wealthy
Outside Eye:   I choose to know that there are hundreds of ways money could come to me
Under Eye:   I choose to give myself permission to be massively wealthy
Under Nose:   I choose to believe in my physical being and my etheric being that I deserve to wealthy beyond my wildest dreams.
Chin:   I choose to believe in every fibre and cell of my being that it is safe for me to be wealthy and successful
Collar Bone:   I choose to release myself from worrying about what others are going to think about me
Under Arm:   I love being financially free and being able to be frivolous with money
Top of Head:   I choose to release myself from all the anxiety and stress around my money
Eyebrow:   I am so grateful for all the opportunities coming to me to help me receive more money
Outside Eye:   I choose to give myself permission to be wealthy beyond my wildest dreams.
Under Eye:   I choose to believe in my physical being and my etheric being that I deserve success and financial wealth
Under Nose:   I love the thought of having more money than I could ever need
Chin:   I love thinking of all the good things I will do and people I will help when I have more money than I could ever need
Collar Bone:   I choose to release myself from all the negative belief systems that have held me back from money and success now
Under Arm:   I am even feeling excited about what the future holds for me financially.
Top of Head:   I love knowing that I deserve to be wealthy beyond my wildest dreams and that it is safe for me to receive lots and lots of money.

If you want to see real lasting results, you will need to keep tapping on the various belief systems that you see coming up, including these ones consistently. And if you do, you will quite quickly see your life and your wealth transform and magic will happen.

Happy tapping.

Do You Suffer From The Silent Success Killer?

There are many traits that go to creating success, and hundreds, if not thousands of experts who will gladly tell you what they are.

There are also dozens of theories, many of them similar and each with their merits, about what the subconscious blocks are to success. They are many and varied and most people have a number of them that need to be cleared before they can move forward to achieve the success they deserve.

However, there is one that often goes unexplored that I want to look at closely today. It destroys relationships, careers, health, hope and is even one of the underlying causes of most, if not all suicide. This insidious fiend is powerlessness.

Powerlessness takes away hope and destroys lives. It stops people from even trying to change their situation. Ask yourself if you have any areas in your life that you feel powerless. Finances? Career? Relationship? Health? Do you feel at the mercy of other people or your situation? A sense of hopelessness that makes you feel like you have no control over that area of your life what-so-ever?

Of course, control is just an illusion. We live in a global community and people, situations and events will happen that will definitely impact on our lives, this is inevitable. But what we can control is how we respond and use each circumstance as an opportunity to be the best we can be and turn any situation into a blessing.

We are never powerless, no matter what the circumstance. We always have a choice, even when things seem hopeless we can choose who we are going to be and what we are going to do to alter the nature of the final outcome.

Even for those facing terminal illness, today there are hundreds of alternative treatments and therapies available that create miracle cures for people everyday, and if not, then finding a way to approach your final months / weeks / days with acceptance and peace could turn the transition into an event filled with grace. As improbable as that sounds, there are numerous cultures that celebrate the transition from this life to eternal life. After all, as Byron Katie says, ‘We are all on the way out’! Nothing else is more certain than our inevitable passing from this life as we know it.

What we fail to see is just how powerful we truly are. The super successful have not risen to dizzy heights because they didn’t have any challenges or set backs. They have gotten to where they are because they saw each challenge as an opportunity to learn, grow, enrich their experience and be even more successful because of it.

You are infinitely powerful, and if you feel powerless it is because you have been led to believe that you are at the mercy of your environment, your circumstances or other people. It’s time to take back your power and show the world that you will not allow outside circumstances to hold you back. Decide there is nothing that will stop you from achieving your goals and dreams. See each hurdle as an invitation to grow. Harness your energy, your resourcefulness, your creativity, your irrepressible nature. Decide to BE UNSTOPPABLE!!!!

Own your magnificence and your power and nothing will be able to keep you from happiness and success.

Here are some EFT tapping phrases to help you release yourself from the grip of powerlessness and move forward positively and powerfully!

Choose one area of your life that isn’t going the way you would like it to.

Make the statement: “I feel powerless to change this situation” and rate how true that is for you on a scale of 0 to 10, 0 being not true at all and 10 being the most true it could possible be.

Now tap along with the following tapping script. If you have phrases that you feel would be more appropriate for you, then replace the ones I have here with those. These are just a guide to get you on the right track.

Karate Chop:

Even though I feel completely powerless to change this situation, I deeply and completely love and accept who I am and how I feel.

Even though I have this overwhelming sense of hopelessness about this area of my life, I choose to honour how I feel and know that there is a solution to my problem.

Even though I feel this deep sense of powerlessness, I deeply and completely love and accept myself and choose to be open to new ideas for a solution.

Eye Brow: I feel this deep sense of powerlessness

Outside Eye: I have no control over this situation

Under Eye: There is nothing I can do to change it

Under Nose: I just have to put up with it and make the best of it

Chin: It’s really hopeless, there’s no way to make this any different

Collar Bone: I’ve completely run out of choices, I just have to wear it

Under Arm: I am totally at the mercy of my situation

Top of The Head: I feel completely and utterly powerless

Eye Brow: Nobody who has ever been in this situation has ever changed it

Outside Eye: And I’m probably the only one who has ever experienced this anyway

Under Eye: I just don’t have what it takes to change this situation

Under Nose: Actually, I’m sure somebody has experienced this before

Chin: And there may have even been somebody who turned it around

Collar Bone: But there’s no way I can change it

Under Arm: I’ve got nothing left to give

Top of Head: What if I could find a solution?

Eye Brow: There must be a solution to this situation

Outside Eye: I just haven’t found it yet

Under Eye: It would be nice to feel some hope about changing this

Under Nose: I gave up to easily

Collar Bone: I choose to be open to the possibility of finding a solution

Under Arm: I choose to know there is a great solution out there for me to this situation

Top of Head: I love feeling hopeful and knowing I have the power to change this situation

Take a deep breath and again make the statement. “I feel powerless to change this situation” and rate it on a scale of 0 to 10.

Keep tapping using these phrases and other ones that you feel are appropriate for you until you bring the rating down to a 1 or a zero. You will probably need to tap on this every few days until you feel a permanent and powerful shift toward your creative and powerful self.

Happy Tapping!

The Secret To Having Anything You Want

As a society we are notorious for being dissatisfied with our lives and for an insatiable appetite for wanting more and more ‘stuff’. Generally speaking, much of this stuff is meaningless to the heart and soul and will not bring happiness, just more wanting and more discontent.

It is a part of human nature to want to create. Because we are continually expanding and seeking more ways to express our infinite selves, we are insatiable creators. This is a good thing as long as we are consciously creating what is best for our highest good and the highest good of all. This kind of creating is soul food.

And experiencing having beautiful, fun things in our lives is a wonderful opportunity we have and compliments our spirituality and overall wellbeing. The belief that if we are spiritual then we cannot be wealthy and have everything our hearts desire is complete nonsense and you are doing yourself a grave injustice if you believe this.

The reason most people do not ever attain what they really want in life is because they ‘want it’ too much. It’s great to have a desire for things and you cannot create unless you have this desire. But the state of ‘wanting’ will just perpetuate the state of ‘wanting’.

So how do you get what you want? Stop wanting it!

I know, it sounds like a complete contradiction, so let me explain.

Put your desire out the Universe and then give thanks for already having it. You don’t want what you already have, so turn your attention to how grateful you are for the things you do have in your life, including the thing you desire.

Keep doing this many times each day. Focus on what you desire, picture yourself already having it, enjoying it, appreciating it and give thanks for it. There is no more powerful attracting force than gratitude. And once your subconscious believes you already have it, then it cannot help but attract it into your life.

Confused? I’m not surprised. It’s the same as the old saying ‘Be, Do, Have’. If you act as if you would when you are living your perfect life, then you will have your perfect life. This concept is alien to many people because we have been trying to do things in reverse for so many years. If your manifesting is not working the way you are doing it, then try it this way. Issue your request, then give thanks for already having it. Miracles happen when gratitude is your focus.

Want Better Answers? Ask Better Questions!

Success, happiness, abundance, freedom. None of these conditions will turn up in your life by accident. Either consciously or subconsciously, you must create them in your life, and to do that, you need to ask yourself the right questions.

Do you keep asking yourself questions like:

“Why can’t I get a break?”
“Why can’t I get ahead?”
“Why am I so unlucky?”
“How come bad stuff happens to me all the time?”
“Why do I keep getting ripped off?”
“What am I doing wrong?”
……………. etc, etc, etc.

Do you notice any relationship between these questions?

I’m going to let you in on a little secret. As soon as you put any question out into the atmosphere through thought, word or deed, your subconscious immediately looks for an answer to affirm that question.

For example, if you ask the question in your mind, “Why can’t I get a break?”, the subconscious will immediately get to work looking for reasons why you can’t get a break and deliver those answers to you in your every day reality. You will experience sabotage all over the place through people and circumstances in your life.

This is because the subconscious mind has 3 jobs. The first one is to keep the status quo. The subconscious mind does not like change, and as long as it perceives that you are not in any immediate danger, it will work to keep things the same.

It’s second job is to keep you in whatever it perceives to be safe circumstances. Even if you don’t feel safe, your subconscious finds your situation safer than the alternative for whatever reason.

And third, it looks for ways to prove you right. So if you ask the question, “Why can’t I get a break?” your subconscious will bring people, events and circumstances into your awareness that will show you why and you will continue to experience problem after problem to stop you from achieving your goals and dreams.

The good news is that you can use this quirk of the subconscious mind to your advantage. Imagine what happens if you turn those questions around. If you ask the question “Why am I so successful?” instead of “Why am I such a failure?”, your subconscious will look for answers to that question and your entire world will change. People, situations and opportunities will present themselves to show you why you’re so successful. And even if you have felt like a failure up until now, suddenly your will start to see areas in your life where you have succeeded that you had completely overlooked before. Your self-esteem and belief in your ability with improve and different results will follow.

You can continue to be thwarted by your subconscious, or you can become a conscious player in the game of life and stack the odds in your favour by putting your subconscious to work for you and not against you.

Become aware of the questions you are automatically asking about yourself and your life, turn them around to a positive focus, and then watch in amazement as miracles and magic conspire to help you succeed, rather than fail.

What Would You Do If You Knew You Could Not Fail?

Life! Good, bad or indifferent, we are all participating in it. So, how’s it going for you? Do you feel like the captain at the helm, or rather like a feather on the breeze, pulled this way and that, at the mercy of whatever life throws at you?

The truth is, we are all, to some extent, subject to the changing nature of life and what it throws at us. We cannot control every aspect of our lives and if we believe we can then we are deluded. What we can control is our responses to situations and the degree to which we allow life’s events to determine how we live our lives.

‘Failure’ is a nasty word in our language that is used to label and demean and criticise the efforts of others (and ourselves). It is something that paralyses many of us and stops us from trying to achieve our hopes and dreams because of our fear of failure.

Like it or not, life is going to continue to change, move, evolve and happen around us. And the truth of the matter is that the only failure that exists is the failure to participate.

Life is filled with challenges. Many of us consider this to be a bad thing and yet challenge is what helps us to grow and experience and achieve things that we would not achieve otherwise. So are you allowing challenges and the fear of failure to paralyze you and keep you stuck? Or are you willing to think outside the square, get out of your comfort zone and find solutions to those challenges rather than blame them for your current state of affairs.

If we choose to blame events or other people for our circumstances we become victims to life. Blame puts us in a position of powerlessness and takes away our ability to find satisfactory solutions to problems. Life is not defined by the problems we have, but how we choose to meet those problems. The greatest achievements arise out of adversity.

So, as long as you continue to participate, YOU CANNOT FAIL. Sure, you’re going to make some mistakes along the way.  That is all part of the process. You cannot succeed unless you make mistakes. Provided you learn from them, with each mistake you make, you are one step closer to success.

And sometimes success is just one more failure away. How will you know unless you keep trying? There is a terrific saying, “It is better to try and fail than to fail to try”.

So, what’s going to be better for you? To stay a victim, blaming everybody and everything else for your situation, and ultimately never have the opportunity to realise your dreams? Or to keep trying until you succeed and realise your dreams. Because that’s the truth of it. If you don’t give up, you are destined to succeed.

Wishing you success, freedom and happiness,
Marguerita Vorobioff

The Habitual Mind

Do you sometimes wonder if you’re ever going to get off the merry-go-round of life? That Ground Hog day kind of feeling where you want things to be different, but every day rolls into the next and nothing ever really changes except the weather? Why, when there is an overwhelming amount of choice and opportunity in our lives, is it so hard to get different results?

The answer is it is the nature of the beast. It’s literally not your fault. We are habitual beings and 96 to 98 percent of the results we experience in our lives are the result of our habitual behaviours, actions and responses to life. These habits have been formed from the time we were conceived through our environment, our parents and other influential people in our lives, and is even programmed into our DNA and cellular memory from past lives and generations. We only live consciously 2 to 4 percent of the time, so if you are purely working with your conscious mind to transform your life, then your chances of seeing true change are pretty close to zero.

There is a great quote by Anthony Robbins: “If you always do what you’ve always done, you will always get what you’ve always got”.

If you want something to change in your life, then you are going to have to alter your thoughts, feelings, behaviours, actions and responses to situations in life. The question is, how do you do this when they are all formed through habit and most of the time we are oblivious to what is causing our life to turn out so different to what we really want?

The answer is simple: Personal Growth and Development. If you want your life to be different, then you have to be different. The change can only come from the inside out and this takes dedication and commitment to your own personal growth and development.

And even those who have dedicated many years to their personal development still struggle with the fundamentals because they are only scratching the surface. To get real change, real fast, you must go deep into the programs that have been hardwired into your brain for most of your life and even beyond.

Fortunately we live in exciting times when dozens and dozens of powerful and effective tools and techniques are widely available for us to learn and use to transform our lives.

Two of my favourite tools of all time are EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and Sound Healing.

EFT is based on the philosophies of the ancient Eastern Healing art of Acupuncture and uses the meridian (energy) points of the body to clear physical, emotional and mental blocks that prevent us from living life to our full potential.

Sound Healing has been utilised by many ancient cultures for thousands of years as a powerful way to restore and maintain harmony and balance in all areas of our physical, emotional, mental and spiritual bodies, thus allowing us to align with whatever we desire and be the best we can be in all ways.

By clearing our major energy centres, our chakras, through sound, we open ourselves up to realizing miraculous and spontaneous healing on all levels.

You are a being of infinite potential. The only limitations you have are the ones you have imposed on yourself. Dedicate yourself to clearing whatever limiting programming, beliefs and emotions are holding you back, so you can realize your full potential and live the life of your dreams.